sorry to hear that....hope she gets back soon....i wrote a poem for her...bit rushed but hey it comes from within as they say

My boyfriend went and dumped me
The bastard that he is
No ifs or buts no long goodbye
Just left me in a tizz

Oh I know the sort of thing he’ll say
The crap that we all hear
It isn’t you that caused the split
It’s me please have no fear

Of course he wont say what he means
The actual reason why!
He thinks by talking out his arse
He won’t cause me to cry

But cry I will most every day
Because that’s what we all do
It’s not as if the twat was hot
He was a lousy screw

I cry because he broke my heart
And that takes time to heal
I won’t miss him forever though
The wound will slowly seal

And when it does off I’ll go
And find another man
A man that treats me with respect
And loves me all he can

So just for now I‘ll take it slow
And let my confidence rise
I have to think that men are twats
Until proved otherwise.

And the main thing to remember here
And never wax and wane
Once your heart is broken
It will never be the same

But just look out and watch me close
Cause I’m now a different girl
I will never date a swine again
Cause I’m a shining pearl

Big hugs to your sister Elly. Poor her. She'll be ok though xxx

I'm sure it won't take her long to get over him. I used to treat a girl in the same way. I wasn't really interested and she did all the phoning and chasing. I was lazy and let it go on for too long.

I'm sure that it was no big deal once she got over the shock of me ending it. Your sister needs to find someone who does want to do nice things with her.

Hope you both have a cracking night out at the weekend!

Stop smoking AND lose weight, at the same time?!? Do let me know how she does that!

On a serious note, yeah, clearly the girl has her head screwed on underneath the falling-for-numpties thing; bit of a self-respect injection neded! I reckon it's fine to care more if you're OK with it; if you're not then it's time to go, and it was and she didn't... onwards and upwards now, though! Have yourselves a bloody good dance on Saturday, and try not to get chatted up if she doesn't...

x

I am kind of going through a similar situation myself and know how difficult it can be getting over someone. But like they say time is a great healer. I wish your sister all the best.
Sophie x